Big Fat Yes
A card game for two

A card game for couples

You each get a hand of cards for the week. Play one on the other anytime. They do it, or they play a Big Fat No.

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iPhone beta opening soon · Free while in beta

How it works

One round, a handful of cards, and a little drama.

  1. The card buddy gets a heart seal 1

    Play a card

    Breakfast in bed. A foot rub. Your pick for movie night. Play a card and it lands on their phone, sealed with a heart.

  2. A heart pops up over the card buddy 2

    They do it, it counts

    They do it, you confirm it, and it counts. Send a thank-you sticker if it made your day.

  3. The card buddy pouts 3

    Or a Big Fat No

    Not feeling it? They can play one of their Big Fat Nos, kindly. Out of Nos? Time to beg.

A round lasts one, two or four weeks. You each get 10 cards, plus 2 Big Fat Nos to keep in your pocket.

The deck

Cards you'd actually want, and a few cheeky swaps.

  • Royal Breakfast
  • Foot Rub
  • Remote Control
  • Plate Swap
  • Dish Duty
  • Coffee Delivery
  • Love Note
  • Seat Swap
  • Back Scratch
  • Snack Run
  • Date Night Planner
  • Turn Swap
  • Sleep In
  • DJ For a Day
  • Compliment Shower
  • Driver Swap
  • Chef Special
  • Chore Swap
  • Phone-Free Hour
  • Blanket Steal
  • Slow Dance
  • Bath Butler
  • Hype Squad
  • Last Bite
  • Blanket Burrito
  • Errand Hero
  • Throwback
  • Pick Swap
  • Yes Hour
  • Weekend Pick
  • Wake-Up Swap
Favor

Foot Rub

Ten minutes of foot rub. No checking your phone.

FavorThe heart of the game: something small and sweet you'd like from them.
Reverse

Last Bite

That last bite was going to be yours. Not anymore.

ReverseA cheeky swap. Their comfy spot, their good blanket, their last bite: yours now.
Big Fat No

Not tonight

Pass on one card, no hard feelings.

No
Big Fat NoTwo per round, so use them wisely. Add a kind word, and undo it for 5 seconds.
Beg

Pretty please?

Out of No cards? Beg for forgiveness. They decide: mercy, or no mercy.

Beg forgivenessThe last way out of a card. It works more often than you'd think.

Made for two phones

Each of you plays from your own phone. Cards travel between you as they happen.

  • Pair with a code

    One of you gets a six-letter code, the other types it in. That's the whole setup.

  • Say no, kindly

    A Big Fat No can come with a kind word: Not tonight, Too tired, Another day.

  • Say thanks

    When a card is done, send a sticker: Love it, Made my day, or Best ever.

  • No winner

    The round ends with a little scrapbook of everything you did for each other.

You each play on your own phone, iPhone or Android, and pair them once with a code.

Questions

Is it free?

Yes, while it's in beta.

Do we both need a phone?

Yes, so you each have your own hand. iPhone and Android play together, so one of you can have each.

What's a Big Fat No?

It lets you pass on a card with no hard feelings. The classic rules give you two each round. In Custom mode you pick anywhere from zero to five.

How long is a round?

One, two or four weeks, or any end date up to three months away.

Is it only for couples?

It's made for couples first. Best friends and roommates are next.

What happens to our data?

No ads, and we never sell your data. The privacy policy has the details.

Be one of the first to play

The beta opens soon on iPhone through TestFlight, Apple's app for trying new apps. Join the list and we'll email you the link the day it opens.